Fresh out of the closet, I was eager and terrified to explore all aspects of my newly realized sexuality with him. However, due to various factors, we never had penetrative sex, which ultimately led him to stray. For him, being a total top contributed deeply to his character. The short answer is yes. Say what you will, but this perception is not always misplaced.
This is clearly not the case, especially for those people who consider themselves versatile HIYA. But it ought not to be impossible to sexually switch things up. Sure, people have a preference, but now could be the perfect time to escape the top or bottom prison you live in. It could open up a world of possibilities. So how do you go about testing new waters? Miller argues that gay men should examine their relationship with power.